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At an age it is nartural for one's parents as well as society to think that now its time for marriage or the age of marriage is going ahead,so u must marry now.Listining to comments of relatives or society and to copup with all your frustrations and hurdles.we decide dat ok lets do shadi....
But this decision is not our wish, actually it is just a compormise or u can say in hindi samjotha.. Its better to live alone den doing a worse marriage.There are different types of pressure for doing marriage.sometimes parents think ,they have searched a nice guye,so u have to choose him and leve ur carrier dbious...
sometimes people will convince u by saying,in proffesional life there are many hurdles and tensions so there should be a life partner for u 4 ur moral support.For few parents ,it is their aim or destiny to marryy their girlchilds in order to remove the burden from their shoulders.......for dem carrier is also important but how cum they can reject a good guye or a perfect match
these narrow thinking is due to generation gap.If you trust urself and dont wanna marry someone until u settle ur life and stand on ur feet,then we should convience about this fact to our wellwishers,i think in order to see us thrilled they do such things which is against us or not our wish...For any coup circumstances one should not agree to marry such people whom we dont like or dont wanna spend our lives in any inadvertent situtions..
one should remmember one thing that under pressure we can do only compormise.........but marriages are
the lifelong relations whose root is love which stands as a pillar for the entire life.
IF a marriage is done under pressure then it breaks easily or divorce occurs early.The hitech or educated youth follow this path generally.The illitrate or uneducated people can often handle pressure or torture but educated people cannot handle torture and follow the path of divorce.If the marriage which is done under pressure or without one's wish does not break...then also it cant be called as a successful marriage or happy maried life..
At an age it is nartural for one's parents as well as society to think that now its time for marriage or the age of marriage is going ahead,so u must marry now.Listining to comments of relatives or society and to copup with all your frustrations and hurdles.we decide dat ok lets do shadi....
But this decision is not our wish, actually it is just a compormise or u can say in hindi samjotha.. Its better to live alone den doing a worse marriage.There are different types of pressure for doing marriage.sometimes parents think ,they have searched a nice guye,so u have to choose him and leve ur carrier dbious...
sometimes people will convince u by saying,in proffesional life there are many hurdles and tensions so there should be a life partner for u 4 ur moral support.For few parents ,it is their aim or destiny to marryy their girlchilds in order to remove the burden from their shoulders.......for dem carrier is also important but how cum they can reject a good guye or a perfect match
these narrow thinking is due to generation gap.If you trust urself and dont wanna marry someone until u settle ur life and stand on ur feet,then we should convience about this fact to our wellwishers,i think in order to see us thrilled they do such things which is against us or not our wish...For any coup circumstances one should not agree to marry such people whom we dont like or dont wanna spend our lives in any inadvertent situtions..
one should remmember one thing that under pressure we can do only compormise.........but marriages are
the lifelong relations whose root is love which stands as a pillar for the entire life.
IF a marriage is done under pressure then it breaks easily or divorce occurs early.The hitech or educated youth follow this path generally.The illitrate or uneducated people can often handle pressure or torture but educated people cannot handle torture and follow the path of divorce.If the marriage which is done under pressure or without one's wish does not break...then also it cant be called as a successful marriage or happy maried life..
